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Sexual chemistry, passion, and open-mind for ltr

I am thoughtful, considerate, caring, honest, witty, and open minded. I was born and raised in NJ. My interests are listening to music, watching movies, billiards, bowling, traveling, museums, and enjoying life. I am down-to-earth, witty/dry sense of humor, and appreciate the simple aspects of life.

Update 9/17: I am willing to travel to meet which means driving or buying a plane ticket to see you provided our schedules are compatible. In addition, it may start out as friends w/benefits which is fine. If the relationship stays as friends w/benefits, that is fine. If the relationship develops into a ltr, that is fine as well. I go with the flow. Please note that it is important to get to know each other before meeting. I would be open in meeting a select top.

Update 1/2020: I have chatted and talked with several members on the site. I have met ladies which has involved me flying out-of-state who are serious, compatible, and most importantly, who have replied to emails with the purpose of p2p meet. Ivegotthefire to (y)ell at me is how to talk with me.

If your profile is not filled out, I will ask you questions to see if we are compatible. I am perplexed as to why profiles are not filled out. For those of you who have profiles that state exactly what you want or don't want, thank you.

I am a masculine man. Profiles state from women they are looking for a masculine man which I am assuming they are only a bottom. This is a misconception. I don't wear women's clothing, pink, talk feminine, cross my legs, wear earrings, makeup, etc. I am the man and you are the woman. The only difference is your equipment and how you use it.

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyI am divorced and looking for a ltr. My affair fantasy is a meaningful, sustainable relationship in which we can explore and have fun.
Does your partner know?Yes
How often does your spouse leave you alone?We live in separate residences. No longer married.

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Long and Thin, Average Sized, Short and Thin, Hard and Fast, Soft and Slow

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I would like to try sex in a public bathroom and fitting/dressing room in a department store.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Hasn't happened yet.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildStocky
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtySales / Marketing
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleManagement

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchIs a versatile pre-op ts, race and age are unimportant, who is a lady in the streets and a freak behind closed doors. I like a woman to dress like a woman: high-heels, tight clothing, stockings, and lingerie. Must be open-minded and like role playing. I am not interested in cd's or guys.In terms of personality, I am looking for a woman who is down-to-earth, playful, honest, sincere, appreciative, thoughtful, and sexy. In other words, both inner and outer beauty. A woman's inner beauty gets my attention, but a woman's outer beauty keeps my attention.

I would be interested in a long term relationship with a 100% ts top but we would have to talk. I do like a woman who is dominant in the bedroom. However, if you are looking for a 24/7 dominant relationship then I am not interested.

Based upon astrological compatibility with a libra, the signs most compatible are Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, and Aquarius. However, I will consider the other astrological signs but we will have to work much harder to make the relationship work.

Not interested in heavy smokers, drug users, STDs, or married. I am a nonsmoker, d/d free, and obviously single.
Our first dateGetting to know one another through conversation to see if there is chemistry and see where it goes from there since we are all adults. Really just keeping it simple on the first date by going out to dinner since we will probably be meeting for the first time in order to get to know one another. Passionate kissing at the end of the date would be nice in order to get a preview of what is to come in the future.

Fetishes

FetishesHigh Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":You would have to tell me what you want and then we will go from there since we both are consenting adults. I am very open-minded and willing to listen since this is an ltr.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyHave a lot of 1-on-1 fantasies with a pre-op ts that I want to explore. I am highly creative and open minded. A relationship is a two-way street. I would also want to hear your fantasies, needs, and desires.
Fantasy locationMoving car, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Movie theatre, Dressing room, In a church, Library, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:My friend, confidant, and lover. Not only having physical chemistry but a long-lasting spiritual connection for a ltr since the ultimate fantasy sex partner should be the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. Also, I would need to know what you like in terms of sex since having a ltr is about knowing and pleasing each other in the streets and behind closed doors. Finally, there has to be intimacy and foreplay since I like to be teased-then-pleased to attain a mental as well as physical connection.

Feel free to ask me any questions. I will respond to all at my earliest convenience. I wish you well on your search.